Thursday, November 21, 2019
How to make yourself work when youre not in the mood
How to make yourself work when you're not in the mood How to make yourself work when you're not in the mood Procrastination affects everyone. It sneaks up on most people when theyâre tired or bored, but for some, procrastination can be a full-fledged addiction. They avoid all day the work that is right in front of them, only to go home and toil late into the night, frantically trying to finish what they could have easily completed before dinner.âProcrastination is the thief of time, collar him.â â" Charles DickensWith the holidays approaching, the high season for procrastination is upon us. Itâs even more difficult to get work done when youâre stuck at the office, wishing you were enjoying time with family and friends.Still, the procrastination cycle can become crippling at any time of the year, which is troubling, because recent studies show that procrastination magnifies stress, reduces performance, and leads to poor health.Psychologists at Case Western Reserve University conducted an interesting experiment where they offered college students a date range instead of a single d ue date for their papers. The researchers tracked the date that students turned in their papers and compared this to their stress levels and overall health. Students who waited until the last minute to turn in their papers had greater stress and more health issues than others did. They also received worse grades on their papers and in the class overall than students who turned their papers in earlier.A study published earlier this year by Bishopâs University explored the link between chronic procrastination and stress-related health issues. The researchers found a strong link between procrastination and hypertension and heart disease, as procrastinators experienced greater amounts of stress and were more likely to delay healthy activities, such as proper diet and exercise.Procrastination is fueled by excuses. We cannot expect to overcome procrastination and improve our health and productivity until weâre able to overcome the negative mental habits that lead us to procrastinate i n the first place.What follows are the most troubling excuses we use to help us procrastinate. Theyâre troubling because theyâre the most difficult excuses to conquer. For each, I offer preventative strategies so you can overcome procrastination and get productive, even when you donât feel like working.âI donât know where to begin.âParadoxically, we often find ourselves frozen like a deer in headlights when confronted with a difficult task. As well, much like deer, the best thing we can do is move in any direction, fast. When a task is particularly difficult, you need all the time you are given to complete it. Thereâs no sense in wasting valuable time by allowing yourself to be overwhelmed by the complexity of the task.The key here is to not allow fear of the whole to stop you from engaging in the parts. When something looks too difficult, simply break it down. What can you accomplish in 60 minutes that will help you slay the beast? Then, what can you do in 60 more min utes?Breaking your task into shorter periods (where effort is guaranteed) allows you to move out of the âdeer in headlightsâ frame of mind. Before you know it, youâve accomplished something, and the task goes from way too hard to absolutely doable. When it comes to challenging tasks, inactivity is the enemy.âThere are too many distractions.âFor most of us, getting started on a large project is a challenge. We stumble over all sorts of smaller, irrelevant tasks that distract us from the real assignment. We answer emails, make calls, check the news onlineâ¦anything to avoid the elephant in the room.Being busy is not the same as being productive. When you find yourself avoiding a particularly sizeable task, slow down and visualize what will happen if you continue to put off the task. Distractions numb you by shifting your attention away from these consequences (a.k.a., away from reality). Reminding yourself of what will happen if you continue procrastinating is a great way t o make distractions less enchanting so that you can focus on your work.âItâs too easy.âTasks that are too easy can be surprisingly dangerous, because when you put them off, itâs easy to underestimate how much time theyâll take to complete. Once you finally sit down to work on them, you discover you have not given yourself enough time to complete the task (or at least to complete it well).If a task is too easy, draw connections to the bigger picture, because these connections turn mundane tasks into a fundamental (and do it now) part of your job. For example, you might hate data entry, but when you think about the role the data plays in the strategic objectives of your department, the task becomes worthwhile. When the smaller, seemingly insignificant things donât get done or get done poorly, it has a ripple effect thatâs felt for miles.âI donât like it.âProcrastination isnât always about a task being too easy or too hard. Sometimes, you just donât want to do it. It can be very hard to get moving on a task in which youâre disinterested, much less despise.Unfortunately, thereâs no foolproof way to teach yourself to find something interesting, because certain things will never draw your attention. Rather than pushing these tasks to the back of your plate, make it a rule that you cannot touch any other project or task until youâve finished the dreaded one. In this way, you are policing yourself by forcing yourself to âeat your vegetables before you can have dessert.âWhen you do get started, you can always turn the task into a game. How can you achieve your task more efficiently? How can you change the steps of the process and still produce the same result? Bringing mindfulness to a dreaded task gives you a fresh perspective. The task itself might not be fun, but the game can be.âI donât think I can do it.âYou are assigned a new project by your supervisor. In fact, itâs one youâve wished he or she would give you for a whi le. However, now that itâs in your lap, you simply cannot get started. You cannot get past thoughts of failure. Whatâs going to happen if I blow it? How am I going to do this? Could I be fired over this? It can reach a point where avoiding failure seems like the best possible option. After all, if you never engage in a project, youâll never fail. Right?Wrong. Procrastination itself is failure - failure to utilize your innate talents and abilities. When you procrastinate, youâre failing to believe in yourself.Remember when you were learning to drive and you could only look straight ahead, because if you looked at something off the road, youâd unwittingly turn the wheel in that direction? Worrying about everything that might go wrong if you fail has the same effect. It pulls you toward failure.You must shift your mind in a confident direction by focusing on all the positive things that are going to happen when you succeed. When you believe you can do something- and you v isualize the positive things that will come from doing well- you equip yourself to succeed. This thought process gets your mind headed in the right direction. Worrying about everything that could go wrong only binds your hands. Break the chains and get started!Bringing it all togetherFighting procrastination teaches us to fully engage in our work, get more creative with it, and, ultimately, get more done.Travis Bradberry is the co-author of Emotional Intelligence 2.0, and the cofounder of TalentSmart. This article first appeared at LinkedIn. How to make yourself work when you're not in the mood Procrastination affects everyone. It sneaks up on most people when theyâre tired or bored, but for some, procrastination can be a full-fledged addiction. They avoid all day the work that is right in front of them, only to go home and toil late into the night, frantically trying to finish what they could have easily completed before dinner.âProcrastination is the thief of time, collar him.â â" Charles DickensWith the holidays approaching, the high season for procrastination is upon us. Itâs even more difficult to get work done when youâre stuck at the office, wishing you were enjoying time with family and friends.Still, the procrastination cycle can become crippling at any time of the year, which is troubling, because recent studies show that procrastination magnifies stress, reduces performance, and leads to poor health.Psychologists at Case Western Reserve University conducted an interesting experiment where they offered college students a date range instead of a single d ue date for their papers. The researchers tracked the date that students turned in their papers and compared this to their stress levels and overall health. Students who waited until the last minute to turn in their papers had greater stress and more health issues than others did. They also received worse grades on their papers and in the class overall than students who turned their papers in earlier.A study published earlier this year by Bishopâs University explored the link between chronic procrastination and stress-related health issues. The researchers found a strong link between procrastination and hypertension and heart disease, as procrastinators experienced greater amounts of stress and were more likely to delay healthy activities, such as proper diet and exercise.Procrastination is fueled by excuses. We cannot expect to overcome procrastination and improve our health and productivity until weâre able to overcome the negative mental habits that lead us to procrastinate i n the first place.What follows are the most troubling excuses we use to help us procrastinate. Theyâre troubling because theyâre the most difficult excuses to conquer. For each, I offer preventative strategies so you can overcome procrastination and get productive, even when you donât feel like working.âI donât know where to begin.âParadoxically, we often find ourselves frozen like a deer in headlights when confronted with a difficult task. As well, much like deer, the best thing we can do is move in any direction, fast. When a task is particularly difficult, you need all the time you are given to complete it. Thereâs no sense in wasting valuable time by allowing yourself to be overwhelmed by the complexity of the task.The key here is to not allow fear of the whole to stop you from engaging in the parts. When something looks too difficult, simply break it down. What can you accomplish in 60 minutes that will help you slay the beast? Then, what can you do in 60 more min utes?Breaking your task into shorter periods (where effort is guaranteed) allows you to move out of the âdeer in headlightsâ frame of mind. Before you know it, youâve accomplished something, and the task goes from way too hard to absolutely doable. When it comes to challenging tasks, inactivity is the enemy.âThere are too many distractions.âFor most of us, getting started on a large project is a challenge. We stumble over all sorts of smaller, irrelevant tasks that distract us from the real assignment. We answer emails, make calls, check the news onlineâ¦anything to avoid the elephant in the room.Being busy is not the same as being productive. When you find yourself avoiding a particularly sizeable task, slow down and visualize what will happen if you continue to put off the task. Distractions numb you by shifting your attention away from these consequences (a.k.a., away from reality). Reminding yourself of what will happen if you continue procrastinating is a great way t o make distractions less enchanting so that you can focus on your work.âItâs too easy.âTasks that are too easy can be surprisingly dangerous, because when you put them off, itâs easy to underestimate how much time theyâll take to complete. Once you finally sit down to work on them, you discover you have not given yourself enough time to complete the task (or at least to complete it well).If a task is too easy, draw connections to the bigger picture, because these connections turn mundane tasks into a fundamental (and do it now) part of your job. For example, you might hate data entry, but when you think about the role the data plays in the strategic objectives of your department, the task becomes worthwhile. When the smaller, seemingly insignificant things donât get done or get done poorly, it has a ripple effect thatâs felt for miles.âI donât like it.âProcrastination isnât always about a task being too easy or too hard. Sometimes, you just donât want to do it. It can be very hard to get moving on a task in which youâre disinterested, much less despise.Unfortunately, thereâs no foolproof way to teach yourself to find something interesting, because certain things will never draw your attention. Rather than pushing these tasks to the back of your plate, make it a rule that you cannot touch any other project or task until youâve finished the dreaded one. In this way, you are policing yourself by forcing yourself to âeat your vegetables before you can have dessert.âWhen you do get started, you can always turn the task into a game. How can you achieve your task more efficiently? How can you change the steps of the process and still produce the same result? Bringing mindfulness to a dreaded task gives you a fresh perspective. The task itself might not be fun, but the game can be.âI donât think I can do it.âYou are assigned a new project by your supervisor. In fact, itâs one youâve wished he or she would give you for a whi le. However, now that itâs in your lap, you simply cannot get started. You cannot get past thoughts of failure. Whatâs going to happen if I blow it? How am I going to do this? Could I be fired over this? It can reach a point where avoiding failure seems like the best possible option. After all, if you never engage in a project, youâll never fail. Right?Wrong. Procrastination itself is failure - failure to utilize your innate talents and abilities. When you procrastinate, youâre failing to believe in yourself.Remember when you were learning to drive and you could only look straight ahead, because if you looked at something off the road, youâd unwittingly turn the wheel in that direction? Worrying about everything that might go wrong if you fail has the same effect. It pulls you toward failure.You must shift your mind in a confident direction by focusing on all the positive things that are going to happen when you succeed. When you believe you can do something- and you v isualize the positive things that will come from doing well- you equip yourself to succeed. This thought process gets your mind headed in the right direction. Worrying about everything that could go wrong only binds your hands. Break the chains and get started!Bringing it all togetherFighting procrastination teaches us to fully engage in our work, get more creative with it, and, ultimately, get more done.Travis Bradberry is the co-author of Emotional Intelligence 2.0, and the cofounder of TalentSmart. This article first appeared at LinkedIn.
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